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What’s up YouTube, it’s your favourite breakup expert Brad Browning here with another video about getting back together with your ex…. If you don’t want to win back your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, then this isn’t the video for you. If you DO want to get back together with an ex, or you’re at least considering it, then you WILL want to watch this video right to the end…. And that’s because I’m going to explain how you can make sure that you turn any unavoidable contact with your ex into a positive thing that’s actually going to help you win them back.
#1 - Turn Your Ex’s Expectations Upside Down
After a breakup, what do you think your ex is going to expect you to be feeling? Sad, heartbroken, lonely, angry…. The typical breakup emotions, which you probably really are feeling inside right now. I know how much it sucks feeling like that, trust me... but you need hide those emotions when you’re around your ex. In fact, if you can go one better and actually pretend that you’re feeling the exact OPPOSITE -- act happy, upbeat, and excited about the future -- that by itself is going to cause some serious doubts in your ex’s mind. I won’t bore you with the psychological reason behind why doing the opposite to what your ex expects you to is so effective, but basically it just forces them to second-guess their decision to break up… and this in turn helps to change the way they feel about you. So when you’re around your ex, don’t be a downer… pretend to be happy, or at least pretend like you’re already over them and moving on to exciting new things… put on your happy face, so to speak.
#2 - Create Mystery By Dropping Subtle Hints
Similar to my last tip, this one also involves playing some simple mind games on your ex…. You have to be careful not to make this too obvious, because it can backfire on you badly if you’re not careful. Basically, though, what you want to do is make some sort of comment when you’re talking to your ex or when you know they can hear you, that hints at a date you’re going on or ‘someone special’ that you’ve met recently. For example, maybe your ex is standing within earshot when you’re talking to another friend… you might say something like, “sorry I can’t hang out tonight, I’d love to but I’m taking my friend to the new Bond movie tonight”. The key is to avoid giving any more details or making it into a big deal… just casually and subtly mention something like that in order to plant the idea in your ex’s mind, and let them spend the rest of the day wondering who this “friend” is and whether it’s a date you’re going on… basically just let your ex’s imagination create some jealousy and shift their overall perceptions of you.
Again, this is a potentially dangerous tactic that can get you into trouble if you’re not careful… make sure you at least actually have plans to go to a movie that night, for instance, so you don’t get caught trying to incite jealousy or look like an idiot for making something up just because your ex could hear you. However, if you get this right, it can be extremely powerful and really make your ex doubt whether they should’ve let you go after all.
#3 - Keep It Fun
Look… I’ve said this in so many of my other videos, and I stress this throughout my Ex Factor program… you’ve got to avoid getting into any drama or negative conversations with your ex. Nothing kills attraction faster than another argument, or another long drawn-out discussion over the state of your relationship and your future together. These are the natural types of discussions that recently broken up couples usually tend to have, but they’re also the worst thing if you’re trying to re-build your ex’s attraction for you.
OK guys, I could keep talking about this stuff for a lot longer, but I think I’ll leave it there… if I’ve missed something, if you’ve got a quick question about your situation, you know what to do -- leave me a comment below the video and I’ll get back to you. Don’t forget to subscribe to my channel as well if you found this video even a little bit useful… your support means a lot, I really appreciate it… so, please do click subscribe, and leave your comments below. Talk to you again soon!
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